SEXUAL DISPOSITION

"Sex holds a profound spiritual significance, and your attitude towards it reveals your gratitude or lack thereof towards God. As a husband,

desiring sex from your wife to feel close to her, and as a wife, seeking intimacy from your husband to get in the mood, both approaches are flawed. They are based on what YOU want rather than what is required, needed, and expected by BOTH of you. Just as you approach God's word to be charged, challenged, and changed in other areas of life, you should approach the

ect of sex in the same manner. Adopt a posture of a student willing to learn and a servant willing to obey.

Let's examine what the Bible says: "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife" (1 Corinthians 7:3-4). God considers your sexual fulfillment so important that He calls it your duty. Your employer doesn't plead with you to report to work; you wake up knowing it is YOUR DUTY to go to work. You arrive on time and perform, knowing that failure to do so could result in termination. Apply the same mindset when it comes to allowing your bodies to engage in passionate fellowship. When you do that, God is pleased, and everything operates according to His plan.

When you realize that your body doesn't belong solely to you, you will do whatever it takes to prepare it for your partner whom you love. You will present it with anticipation of the amazing experience that lies ahead. This truth liberates you from the confines of surrendering to your own feelings. As a husband, connecting with your wife and understanding her emotional needs becomes paramount, rather than solely focusing on achieving and maintaining an erection. As a wife, the petty excuses you may come up with will dissipate because you understand that God expects you not to disappoint Him.

The problem is that we have allowed our minds to control our feelings instead of guiding our minds towards what needs to be done, as we are accountable to the Creator of sex. Consult any psychologist, and they will tell you that the primary sexual organ is not the male genitalia or female reproductive organ; it is the mind. Think about how you prepare for final exams or a major event. Your body stretches and adapts because your mind is determined to accomplish something important. Why don't we apply the same principle when it comes to sex?

Consider this:

Your life is short.

• Married life is shorter.

• Your sex life is the shortest. Maximize it now because a time will come when age-related changes may affect performance and desires. Don't wait until your strength wanes and opportunities fade.

Let's be honest: Gentlemen, let's address this openly. Sex is an act, while making love is an art. Making love goes beyond simply sustaining an erection during intercourse. Sex is only a fraction of expressing love to your wife. Although you may think about sex most of the time, if not all the time, marriage doesn't revolve solely around sex. Understanding the emotional intricacies of your wife is a lifelong journey of study.

Remember that often overlooked verse in 1 Peter 3 that discusses dealing with your wife according to knowledge? Yes, that one. This is an area where it applies. Your wife will experience different seasons, at times unpredictable and influenced by hormones. However, you have a lifetime to discover her ways.

You can engage in sex with your wife and leave her feeling unsatisfied and frustrated. This has nothing to do with the size or endurance of your genitalia, nor the time you spend satisfying your own desires. Making love is about how well you tune into her emotional needs and sensitively respond to the unique person you married. Many wives complain about feeling violated after sex with their husbands because they feel objectified, as if they are tools to unlock pleasure that you feel entitled to.

Your wife wants you to make love to her. She longs for you to connect with her mind, to touch her heart, and to explore her emotional needs. By addressing these needs, you will experience a deeper connection and satisfaction when making love. Remember, there are no rigid rules.

Communicate with your wife during lovemaking. Explore and appreciate her body. As you pray, God will grant you a fresh ability to be creative, bringing unique and satisfying experiences to your woman.

Avoid comparing past encounters with the precious gift in front of you; it will only backfire. Don't be selfish; consider your wife, explore, experience, experiment, and enjoy. Avoid pressuring her in any way, as it diminishes the pleasure. Handle your partner with care. You can thank me later!"

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