PRE-MARITAL CLASS

Beyond I Do: The Blueprint Before the Build

The wedding is a day. The marriage is a lifetime. Don’t spend $50,000 on a party and nothing on the foundation.

Most premarital counseling is a checkbox—a polite conversation about communication and finances. Beyond I Do is different. It is a high-impact, architectural deep dive into the two individuals attempting to become one. We aren't here to talk about your flowers or your guest list; we are here to talk about the "silent stowaways" you are both bringing into this union: your hidden expectations, your family shadows, and your definitions of "fun."

We move beyond the honeymoon phase to design a marriage that can withstand the weight of reality. Our sessions cover:

• The Inventory of the Self: Identifying the "I" before it becomes the "We." We look at your personality blueprints—how you handle conflict, how you seek safety, and where your ego tends to hide.

• The Architecture of Intimacy: Establishing a shared language for sex, affection, and emotional connection before the "routine" sets in. We set the thermostat for the house early.

• Values & Vision Casting: Aligning on the "Big Four": Money, Kids, Career, and In-laws. We don't just find middle ground; we build a new territory that belongs only to the two of you.

• The "Fun" Strategy: Intentional planning for joy. We teach you how to protect the "play" in your relationship so that twenty years from now, you are still each other's favorite person.

Why this is vital: You wouldn’t build a custom home without a set of blueprints, yet millions of couples attempt to build a life on nothing but a "feeling." Feelings are the weather; character and strategy are the structure. Beyond I Do gives you the tools to ensure that when the storms come, the house doesn't just stand—it thrives.

The vows are the beginning. Let's make sure you know what comes next.